Part 2 The S.T.U.P.I.D. Series

The Home Remedy for S.T.U.P.I.D.

Featuring the patented Ask-Yourself-WHY Formula

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It’s a two-and-a-half-minute prerequisite to this discussion! 

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It is true, for years I believed there was no cure for  S.T.U.P.I.D. 

Before I discovered a powerful, non-prescription remedy

called The Secret Pond Perspective with patented Ask-Yourself-WHY Formula

I actually had to do a lot of work on myself…and I’m not even close to done.

(I don't think we're ever done!)

Let’s face it, there isn’t a soul out there who hasn’t suffered from S.T.U.P.I.D. 

And oh my gawd, Becky…was I the queen of S.T.U.P.I.D. with a reign longer than I’d like to admit!  So, I guess, in essence, that’s the only bad news…we all have flare-ups from time to time.  We’re human. We’re living and learning…mistakes become lessons… if we let them. 

Those suffering from S.T.U.P.I.D. are

Stuck Temporarily Unaware of Personal Inner Direction.

Maybe you’re like me and you noticed an increase in S.T.U.P.I.D.

Everyone is out there shouting from their rooftops, telling everyone else what’s wrong with them, calling them out on social media, or in person, even name-calling.

That sets a great example for our kids, doesn’t it?

But what if we realized that if we heal our home, our inner home, ourselves… and our extended home, our immediate family, our children, our partner, then we would no longer feel the need to shout from the rooftops or trash people on the internet.

For real…because the more healed and whole we become, the less what others do bothers us or triggers us.  Ask me how I know.

Imagine if, instead, we shared our talents, strengths, and experiences with love and grace, with empathy, offering calm, reassuring help to those who resonate with our offerings.

You will never find someone you agree with 1000%.  Our individual experiences are far too unique for that to even be a possibility.  Fully understanding each other’s choices, thoughts, or beliefs isn’t even always possible…and honestly, it isn’t really the goal.

The goal is to become settled enough within yourself that other people living their lives based on their experiences doesn’t hijack your peace.

The goal is empathy, humility, and to remember that we are all human,

and we typically have way more in common than we don’t.

So, we don’t have to agree with everything everyone says or does to be the best version of oursELF…and love more, listen better, and live with more peace.

Just imagine how life could look if we healed our home first.

That’s the journey I’ve been on for quite some time. And along the way, I’ve found that what others do bothers me much less than it used to…and my life is much more peaceful because of it.

So, while Norm tries to tell us to change the world and then we’ll feel safe…and then we can have peace…and then we’ll be happy…it’s a trap.  We’re essentially outsourcing our power, which keeps us stuck in a hamster wheel we can’t seem to get off of…and that’s called a loop by the way.  So, we spend lots of energy and even gain momentum, but there’s no forward movement and no progress.

The truth is, we need to heal the foundation of our own home first before we can even consider “helping” others.  They even tell you this on an airplane.

Put your oxygen mask on first…

So, we begin to see that there is a cure for S.T.U.P.I.D…and it probably doesn’t look like we thought it would. And it starts with our patented Ask-Yourself-WHY Formula.

In the next episode I’ll discuss how our childhoods could be the cause of some of our S.T.U.P.I.D. flare-ups. 

Red Rover, Red Rover send the next episode right over!

And remember, don’t be a BEEP!

And as Grandad always used to say,

“Now there’s some sense to that.”

Until next time, wishing you much love and laughter,