Like most people, I suffer from S.T.U.P.I.D. flare-ups. I did a lot of inner work to try to work through my S.T.U.P.I.D. But when Drew entered his teenage years and would argue, be disrespectful or have 'an attitude' I would get so incredibly mad. And he would repeatedly ask me, “Why do you get so mad?” My final answer? Check it out and see! ;)

We’re continuing our discussion about a serious condition, S.T.U.P.I.D. When someone has a S.T.U.P.I.D. flare-up it means they are Stuck Temporarily Unaware of Personal Inner Direction.

Let’s face it, there isn’t a soul out there who hasn’t suffered from S.T.U.P.I.D. And oh my gawd, Becky…was I the queen of S.T.U.P.I.D. with a reign longer than I’d like to admit! But there is a home remedy for S.T.U.P.I.D.

The Secret Pond Perspective is a visualization tool for inner healing that helps us see our emotions and patterns more clearly so we can meet our hurt with love, calm our emotional waters, and create more space for contentment and peace.

Carmen developed The Secret Pond Perspective in honor of her Grandad, as a way of paying forward the impact he had on her life, in hopes of helping others discover their Secret Ponds.